Friday, May 31, 2013

Encouragement & Quilt Raffles!!!

Yesterday I saw that a family received a referral (ie were matched with their future son/daughter and finally got to see their baby's sweet sweet face through video and photos).  The amazing thing is that their "log in" date (ie date that all of their information was sent to Ethiopia and they were officially "waiting" for a referral) was only 1 1/2 months before ours!!  We will most likely not receive a referral anytime quicker than what I had posted previously (probably 4-5 more months) but it is still encouraging to see that referrals are coming!

During the past few months I have also been astonished by the outpouring of love and generosity by so many in our adoption journey.  Just this past month some AMAZING friends hosted a garage sale with "All Proceeds Go To The Fleener's Adoption".  

The Urruchis, Rawls, and Mays have no idea the love I have for their families.  We met years ago in a "Married with No Kids" Sunday School group at Temple Baptist Church and I haven't been able to shake them since!  The Lord has blessed me so much with their friendship and I couldn't pick better people to share life with!  

I give God all the glory for what He did at our garage sale adoption fundraiser.  That day there was a high percentage of rain forecasted, yet the downpour did not begin until AFTER the garage sale ended.  Not only that, but we were able to bring in OVER $800!!!  The last garage sale I had at my house only brought in $26!  God is always confirming that our adoption journey is ultimately in His will, in His timing, and to His purpose.  To God be the glory!

While posting information on Facebook about the garage sale, I was encouraged by friends who sent messages wanting to simply donate towards our adoption expenses!  Wow!  Not only were they monetary, but a dear dear friend of the family, offered to donated this GORGEOUS 45 x 52" Kona Bay Fabrics Quilt.  So, I am happy to announce that...

We are having a QUILT RAFFLE!!




I mean, seriously?  How beautiful is this quilt!  I just love the colors and the design so much!  This quilt was stitched together by Barbara Gaddy, you can visit her blog at http://www.bejeweledquilts.blogspot.com/.  She is amazing at what she does, and could easily have sold this quilt for hundreds of dollars; instead, she chose to donate it to our growing family!  To God be the Glory!

We will be selling raffle tickets online from now until June 24th!!  We will have our drawing on Wednesday, June 25th and will ship the quilt to you!  So this is perfect for EVERYONE!  Tickets are $5 for one tickets, or $10 for three tickets!  All proceeds will go towards our adoption and will be set aside in a separate savings account specifically for adoption expenses.

So how do I participate?
Email me at kami.fleener@yahoo.com with the amount of tickets you would like to purchase!  I will email you back with information on how to purchase!  Thanks so much again!
 On June 25th I will draw the winning ticket, and if you're the winner, the quilt will be shipped directly to you!  It's that easy!



I just want to thank all of the wonderful people in my life who have supported our family and our adoption journey since we began back in 2010.  Hopefully our family will be growing from 2 to 3 in 2013!

Monday, May 13, 2013

Update.. Finally!


Ok.. ok… so it has been quite awhile since I have updated my blog, so here it is!  We began our journey almost three years ago… yes you heard me right… THREE. YEARS. AGO.  After a year of homestudies, background checks, physicals and paper work we sent off our dossier (ie humongous packet of paperwork) to Ethiopia.  From that point we were told that we had about 6-12 months to wait for a referral.    Due to many many changes in Ethiopia (read more here if you are interested in why: http://www.pureandlasting.com/change-is-gonna-come/) the wait time is now 26 to 27 months and we hope to receive our referral by September (please please please!!!). 

Mike and I will wait as long as we have to, because we know without a doubt, that our son is in Ethiopia right now.  There is a song by Christina Perri that I believe sums up exactly how we feel

I have died everyday waiting for you
Darling don't be afraid I have loved you
For a thousand years
I love you for a thousand more 
One step closer
And all along I believed I would find you
Time has brought your heart to me
I have loved you for a thousand years
I love you for a thousand more

Has this been easy?  No.  Absolutely not.  But through it all, I am so in awe of God’s faithfulness in spite of the tantrums and periods of doubt that I have had during our adoption process so far.  I have been waiting for three years to finally hold my son against my chest and whisper in his ear that he is now a Fleener and that nothing he can do will ever change that.  I can only pray that I give God the glory He deserves for being ever present in every step of this process.  He knew when we began how long, and difficult, this would be for us and He has used every moment of it to draw us closer to Him.  Holy Holy Holy is the Lord God Almighty.  With my lips I will praise Him forevermore.